I always read and hear testimonies/stories from christians who have been in different relationships that didn’t work out and then they eventually end up meeting the right guy that God had for them.
Well …I can never relate to these stories no matter how beautiful they are because I have never been in any relationships. Aren’t there anyone who’s been in that situation and then ended up meeting their soul mate? People who married their first love or people who had their first romantic encounter at a later age than usual or normal. I would love to hear these testimonies and stories.
Most people who are in their 20s and have always been single tends to hate it. I want encouragements and testimonies. Jesus was single so I can always ask him for strength. I wonder if He ever felt alone? I bet not. Of course He always had God and so do I thanks to him. God is good at making people feel better about different situations.
I just wanted to point out the fact that not everyone can relate to every love (romance) testimonies out there or gain encouragement from them. At times I just want to hear about people who have never had a boyfriend or never had a girlfriend at a late age and how they ended up meeting their spouses. How they stayed strong and put their trust in God. How they were able to ignore people trying to hook them up because they felt sorry for them. How they got made fun of because they didnt want to be with someone who wasnt chosen by God for them. How people looked down at them. How everyone thought they had a problem because they never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. How people tried to get them to dress certain ways so they can attract the opposite sex sexually.
Just my thoughts.
Should a child of God shop for sexy clothes? I dont think so. Why? because there is no way a person is going to dress with the intentions to look sexually exciting and at the same time with the intention to represent God.
As Christians, Children of God, we want to always represent Him in what we do, the way we talk and the way we dress. I dont see how a person who shops to look sexy is thinking about representing God. More like represent her lustful desires.
When you look up the definition of sexy it basically means to look sexually arousing, interesting and sexually everything! I dont see what part of these sexuallys represent God. Most importantly I dont see how that fits a single christian man or lady.
I think that everyone who purposely dress to look sexy is either trying to look sexually appealing to those around or in love with their flesh. what is wrong with looking lovely? Why do we have to be part time children of God? I feel like some people are willing to represent God in some aspects of their lives but not all of it. That’s a part time christian. I want to be a full time christian and dedicate every area of my life to God.
The thing is once you start to start to really think about giving your all to God it becomes much easier to dedicate different areas of life to him one by one. A year ago if someone would have tell me that it’s not the best thing for a christian to look sexy, I would have call it bogus because I used to be all about looking appealing to others. I wasnt thinking about being spiritually attractive, i was more into physical attraction and I didn’tcare about whether God approved of the way I looked or not. Things changed.
We need to live more in the spirit and not so much in the flesh. We need to stop trying to “look bad”. God isn’t into “bad”. We can still look good and young without looking sexually exciting.
Out of sexy you get “sex”. Out of lovely you get “love”. nowadays noone wants to look innocent, no one wants to look like an angel but they claim to be a follower of the man who have these characteristics. Jesus!
If you are following someone who is innocent, victorious, lovely why on earth would you dress the opposite of that. A lot of People claim to be a follower of Christ but they despise anything that represent His character. When we are trying to dress ‘sex’y we cause people to lust with their eyes. Afterall that is the intention. God calls that adultery. We need to stop causing our brothers and sisters to stumble. A lot of men and women feels like they are sexy and need to show it off. That’s not cool at all.
Please dress with some love. Clothe yourself lovely. God is Love. Represent him. Do your best to follow Christ fully. Let him be seen in every areas of your life.
2.In my Father’s house are many mansions; if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. 3.And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you myself; that where I am, there you may be also. 4.And where I go you know, and the way you know. John 14: 2-4 NKJV This made me smile! I love this!! Jesus is home making preparing a spot for us. Praise him!! Thank you Lord! The groom is preparing a place for his bride. There are mansions over there! And it’s all being prepared for us so that we can enjoy and rest when we get there. God is amazing!